Choosing the Right Home for Virtual Visitation: What Parents Need to Consider
In today’s world, parenting often looks a little different—especially after a separation or divorce. While in-person parenting time is still important, many families are also leaning on virtual visitation to keep children and non-custodial parents connected. It’s a tool that can make a big difference, especially when distance, work schedules, or other circumstances limit face-to-face time.
As a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert® (CDRE®) with over 25 years in Colorado real estate, I’ve worked with many families navigating these changes. One thing I’ve seen time and time again: the home environment matters, especially when virtual visitation is involved.
Here are a few things parents should keep in mind when choosing a home that supports virtual parenting time:
1. Reliable Internet Connection
It might seem obvious, but having fast, stable internet is a must. Video calls are the foundation of most virtual visits, and nothing disrupts connection like dropped calls or frozen screens. Whether you’re buying or renting, be sure to check the availability of high-speed internet in the area—especially in rural or mountain communities here in Colorado.
2. A Quiet, Private Space
Virtual parenting time should feel personal and focused. A designated area in the home—even a small corner with a desk, headphones, and some child-friendly items—can make a child feel safe and more willing to open up. It’s not about having a perfect setup; it’s about creating a space that allows for meaningful conversations without constant distractions.
3. Kid-Friendly Considerations
Think about the child’s age, needs, and comfort. Does the home have space where your child can relax and feel at ease during calls? Are there toys, books, or familiar items nearby that can help make the visit more natural? These little touches can go a long way in making virtual time feel more like quality time.
4. Proximity to School, Friends, or Routine
Even if most visits are virtual, the location of the home still matters. If there’s ever a chance to shift to more in-person time—or even weekend visits—it helps when the home is reasonably located. Staying within reach of a child’s routine can ease transitions and make both virtual and in-person time more seamless.
5. Safety and Stability
As a neutral real estate expert, I always advise clients to consider not just the property itself, but the surrounding environment. Is it a neighborhood where your child would feel safe visiting? Is the housing arrangement sustainable for you long term? Kids pick up on stress quickly—having a stable home base can offer them a strong sense of security, even through a screen.
Final Thoughts
Virtual visitation isn’t a substitute for in-person parenting, but it’s a powerful supplement—especially when used intentionally. As a CDRE®, my role isn’t to give legal advice, but to guide families through the real estate side of these major life changes. The right home can support not just your new beginning, but your child’s emotional connection with both parents.
If you’re facing decisions around selling the marital home or relocating post-divorce, and virtual visitation is part of your parenting plan, feel free to reach out. I’m here to help you think through your options from a real estate lens—always keeping your family’s best interests at heart.
Need guidance navigating the real estate process during or after divorce? Let’s talk. I’m just a call or message away.
